You made me cry.

Oasis · Post by **Oasis** » Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:59 am

Kadie,

I agree with Busyhands/Pat, the pain will never go away, but with time will ease and later on you will be able to feel the love and hugs from El's Angels. The hurt is still way too fresh for you. I'm so glad you have your family around you and "we" are all here for you also when you are ready.

Hugs,
Linda/Oasis

sharonkl · Post by **sharonkl** » Fri Aug 07, 2009 1:03 pm

Katie, just know we all love you.

mcmema · Post by **mcmema** » Sat Aug 08, 2009 5:03 am

Kadie, Im crying with you also, and I still cry for me. I know exactly what you are going through, Ive been there and done that. Its been almost 15 years for me, beleive me kadie the pain eases, but never goes away, we just have to push ourselves to go on with life and know our DH are safe and happy in heaven, looking down on us and we know that they expect us to get on with our lifes as we would expect of them if the situation was reversed! so thats what Ive done, and hon it does get easier, some time, some morning you will awaken and say , Ok time to move on, Ill be with him soon enough, so now I have to be the real me for my kids and myself! Because thats the way Ken would want me to be, He is probably a little angry because you havent moved on yet hon.
You will get through this, it will be hard, some days harder than others, then the hard days will move to being hard moments, I love you Kadie, Im here for you,any time anything!
Jenn

teacupdelights · Post by **teacupdelights** » Sun Aug 09, 2009 1:43 am

There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than 10,000 tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. ~ Washington Irving

Ittybittygma · Post by **Ittybittygma** » Sun Aug 09, 2009 1:10 pm

Kadie, I too am crying as I try to type thru tears. No words in the world can ease the pain you feel today. But please know we are all here for you, reaching out with love and hugs and prayers. May God be with you and your children as you struggle each day to overcome the sadness and hurt and loneliness. May HE provide you all with peace and comfort and the warmth of many many hugs from around the world.

It is too soon to not feel the raw pain of your loss. It is a natural part of grieving and each person handles it differently in their own way and their own time. Try to remember the happier times in the past and talk about them with your family and friends. Those memories are tucked away in your heart and no one can take that away from you. Sharing your tears and your stories will bring you all closer together and perhaps ease a little of the pain.

Someday, not now, but someday, those memories will start to bring you a smile along with the tears as you remember. You will hear the whisper of his voice in a breeze, you will think of him as a butterfly flits by, (a tiny guardian angel at your side), music or a song will remind you of a happy time together long long ago, and you will look up to heaven and smile thru tears. Perhaps in your heart or even with words, you will say I love you and I know you are there watching over me. It may bring tears but you will know he is there with you in your heart and soul and memories. If you are angry with him or God or both for leaving you alone, that is okay. It is a natural part of the grieving.

Praying for better days ahead, that each day will get a little easier with a little less pain, and a little more hope. May God surround you with angels of love and compassion and support. May you feel the warmth and love of all those here who are crying along with you today. And someday when you feel up to it, may you take out that quilt made with love and, yes tears too, and wrap it around you and bury your face into all that love, and cry. And while you are crying, may you feel the arms of all reaching out to you with hugs and sharing your sadness.

I can't type any more thru my tears and I keep making mistakes but want you to know that I love you and I am so sorry you feel so alone now. Wish I could be there beside you, holding your hand, hugging you, or just sitting and listening as your pour out your sadness and sorrow. God bless you and your family, Much love and many many hugs across the ocean, Shirley Mae

CoyoteQuilts · Post by **CoyoteQuilts** » Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:19 pm

{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Sharon V.

QIAD-Linda · Post by **QIAD-Linda** » Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:03 pm

Kadie, I am missing you, a lot! Wish you would post again. Stop running off to the outback and bring your pink boots in here and talk to me. Hope you haven't gone on a walk-a-bout. lol
Missing you dear friend,
Linda

quiltwen · Post by **quiltwen** » Tue Aug 11, 2009 2:04 am

Hugs Kadie girl, one day you will be able to wrap yourself in the quilt,it doesnt matter when, just know everyone misses and loves you so,Much love and cuddles Wendy

Post by **Nadine2007** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:28 pm

Hi Kadie, Just read your post I am at lost for words. I will be praying for you and your family. So glad to see you post again. Keep the faith god will help you get thru this. He's my rock. Bev

MAWmum · Post by **MAWmum** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 3:17 pm

Oh Kadie we love you tons! When its time it will be time, you are the only one that has to live with your grief. You will know when you are ready to deal with "us" again.

You are in my prayers and I think of you all the time, Love you tons. Carin

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